The numbers are not in a gay man’s favor.

I shocked my straight friends last night when I told them that, contrary to Kinsey’s famous 10% figure, the actual amount of homosexuals identifiying as such in the United States range around 3.5%.

If you can imagine around only 3.5% of the people you are attracted to are available options to date in the first place, those are the kind of numbers I’m working with every day.

I rage about this. I want to be able to meet someone because the two of us happened to connect at a moment — one that isn’t contextually based on being in a…